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dominantlife: yourbadgrrl: “Sir, your job is very stressful. How do you manage to be so calm and focused?” “Well, I workout regularly and do yoga. And I keep a fuckdoll here in my closet at work in case I need to let off steam. Kidding!” The interviewer and he laughed and laughed. His pet smiled when she heard his comment. She knew he’d be coming for her very soon… π
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fortheluvofdoms: dominant-daddy: I do not think suggesting punishments (or rules) would be a responsible or wise thing for me to do when I know nothing about the submissive.  However, take the time to read THIS and discuss what punishments would produce the best results for Y/your own dynamic. E.G: Don’t issue spankings as a punishment if You have a masochistic submissive. She will ‘act out’ to seek a punishment if she gets pleasure from it.  Any and every rule deliberately broken should have consequences and these should always be carried out with consistency. Submissives need consistency and need to know the Dominant will punish for ALL infractions. If Your ‘little’ has difficulties performing a task but tries her best to successfully complete it, but fails… encouragement and reassurance should be given. Do not punish her for doing her best as it will only add to the disappointment and aggravate her even more. Use common sense and do not give a punishment for every slight infraction as this will make her feel worthless and resentful.  Please, DO NOT give her a rule if there is to be no consistency. Only give her rules that WILL have a consequence. Being in a cyber D/s dynamic is no different to a RL relationship. Have her sit with you (Skype) and discuss her rules. Ask her if there are any rules she thinks she should have. Have Your ‘little’ write them down in what ever way she chooses. Let her know they are HER rules and that they belong only to her. Then agree on the punishments for any infractions, and remember.. the punishment should fit the circumstance. Be firm but fair with her. Understanding Your ‘little’ is important and should give You a clear indication of what rules/punishments would be appropriate for her. Once again, use common sense. (30 lashes of the cane for forgetting to clean her room is not recommended!)  Finally, always explain to her why she is to be punished and give Your reasons. Afterwards… provide her with the necessary aftercare. She will need to know Daddy still loves her and wants her. Have her hold onto her favorite soft toy or blanket and use Your voice to comfort her and reassure her. Give her lots of support and let her know Daddy still loves His little girl. D~D Made rebloggable by request thank you!!
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